Storyline: How daughters step out of their boundary you never know and keep seeking more than average aspirations. Who is guilty of it? Is the transformation justified?
Well! There lived a beautiful nuclear family, (father, mother, daughter and a son). The Father, a chartered accountant, was doing his own practice by setting up a small office at home; mother, a house wife; daughter, 10 years old, was the eldest child among two where the son being 7 years., sailed smoothly. Both were nerves to their parents, just like any other family, mother had a soft corner for her son and father, very attached to his daughter.
Being a thorough professional and a financial analyst, with vast amount of worldly and practical expertise in life, he preferred and can say expected his children also to be highly qualified. He wanted his daughter to become an architect and his son to become an engineer. Though his love for his two kids were equal, somewhere down the line, he was very much attached to his daughter. He wished to offer all his best for his daughter; all her demands he would fulfill, no matter the demands were out of his way. It was slowly becoming an increasing ordeal! Little did he realize, he was digging himself a deeper hole?
Years passed by, his daughter completed her college, he encouraged her to go for a job, and would kindly advice her to be an independent girl. After two years, father wanted to see a alliance for his daughter, he asked her whether he can start looking out for the alliance? Daughter answered in a demanding voice and replied curtly ”Papa, if you are looking alliance for me, then I have few demands to be met, based on that you should see the alliance”, with a sluggish voice and shoulder down, father asked “tell me, what are your demands, my dear”. She replied” I want a man who is rich enough, he should be the only son from an affluent family and of course financially very sound, millionaire would be the best choice anyway; also I should live a life like a princess in that family; there should be enough servants, who would obey my orders and continued…”
Listening to his daughter’s grave and preposterous demands, the father was undoubtedly upset and thoroughly disappointed by his bringing up of his child, and with a pitied face, he was thinking that, “I always fulfilled her demands all the way long, and come to think of it, the final outcome is something which is not up to my own limits now!!!”.
Readers, we have more story lined up for you, I would like to share just five tips to the parents here based on my understanding in life. This is rather from the perspective of a parent to a child.
Tip 1: We often find that there are many things that parents can do, to not only help their girls to better survive adolescence, in an effort to help our teen girls., we should strive or make an effort to set them apart by identifying and nurturing them to develop a good self-conception as well as providing discipline, culture, etiquette’s etc., so that their behavior remains within reasonable boundaries. Please try to understand how the teen girl feels, perceives and defines her own world.
Tip 2: Be informed about today’s teen girls culture and issues- like change in hormonal levels are at peak, fear of AIDS, pressure towards sexual activity
( oral or otherwise)
Tip 3: Develop patience and remember to remain composed and gather your wits and guts to parent wisely, even though your teen girl may profess to hate you at the moment.
Tip 4: Learn to listen effectively even though the kid is being unreasonable, bull headed, or just downright selfish. Set rules that are fair, clear and capable of being followed consistently.
Tip 5: And most of all, get to know your daughter’s friends and their parents and to engage in activities together.
Let’s get back to the story now!
Fortunately, the hunt for a son-in-law and a husband for his loved one was not futile. He searched for a millionaire family which gelled with his daughter’s demands, and they were a blessing in disguise. He readily approved the son-in-law, as the latter came across as a wise, confident, smart, successful chap according to his assessments. The daughter got engaged with the man who was handpicked by her father like any object of her choice. Now, father had started preparation for the wedding; here again his daughter had demands for marriage venue, food, clothes, jewelries and so on. She tells her father “I want a platinum jewelry for reception and a diamond necklace for my wedding”; and added that “my dress should also have gold bedecked into it”
It was highly impossible for him to fulfill her outrageous demands as he hailed from a middle class family, but keeping his daughter in mind, he did overcome and fulfilled that too. And with lot of ups and downs, finally the day had arrived, where his daughter got married, and was leaving her maternal home and entered in a new family.
Few days later, she went out with her friends, without informing her husband, for a movie and with the association of higher end people she visited a pub; it was a routine in the kitty party to take rounds in social vicious circle to visit unknown destinations. Time flew by, it was getting close to 12 o’ clock and her husband got worried and was trying to reach her in mobile, but was not able to reach her. He got worried more, and kept waiting for her.
Her newfound freedom and the kick, she enjoyed every bit of it, my! My! She stepped in to her home by 3 in the mid night, and slept off without seeing that her husband is waiting for her. The poor fellow was visibly shaken. He was literally in love with her and was hence spellbound to her newer attitude.
Next day when her husband was leaving to office, she asked for a car key to go out for a kitty party., without sensing that her husband is getting late for office. With the vanity’s pride she took the key and left. Husband got wild by seeing his wife’s behaviour. Day by day, her behaviour was becoming so rude and tough to handle for her husband, which led her to live in a dramatic world.
MORAL OF THIS STORY IS THAT HOWEVER GIRLS ARE BROUGHT UP WELL BY THEIR FATHERS., AND THAT THE FATHER WAS WAY TOO LIBERAL ON THE KID LEADS THEM LIKE THIS OR BECAUSE OF TOO MUCH PAMPERING., AND SO IN THEIR TEENAGE THEY BECOME SO RUDE AND ARROGANT.,
TO WHICH WHEN THEY GROW UP ADULT THEY BECOME MORE AND MORE CONCIOUS OF THEIR WANTS AND NEEDS.,
TO FULFILL THEIR WANTS AND NEEDS THEY WILL GO TO ANY HEIGHTS WHICH MAKES THEM TO BEHAVE AS A MONSTER!
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This is part of the series on Descriptive Adjectives and words for Creative Writing
To learn the ” meaning ” of an adjective or word from the story. Stories are known as fiction because they have fictitious characters.
An acerbic criticism of some imaginary
( gulling, gamey, clamant, exigent, blabbing, gabbling, palavering, crotchety, inveigling, cantankerous, blarneying, wheedling, chousing ) women.
Strange is this world …. Even the most harridan woman expects her husband to be uxorious.
Reading all the stories will teach you most useful, practical, adjectives for women. The verbs explain what women do in the stories.
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acerbic – Sour or bitter in taste. Harsh or corrosive in tone. “an acerbic tone piercing otherwise flowery prose”.
gulling – Make a fool or dupe of. Gull – Fool or hoax. codding. twitting – Harass with persistent criticism or carping.
carping – Persistent petty and unjustified criticism. Raise trivial objections.
caviling. chicaning. chousing – Defeat someone through trickery or deceit. jockeying, shafting
gamey – Suggestive of sexual impropriety. racy.
clamant – Conspicuously and offensively loud; given to vehement outcry. Demanding attention. “clamant needs”. clamorous.
strident – Being sharply insistent on being heard. “strident demands”. Unpleasantly loud and harsh. sibilant. spirant. fricative. continuant.
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exigent – Demanding attention. “regarded literary questions as exigent and momentous”. Requiring precise accuracy.
“became more exigent over his pronunciation”.
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blabbing – blabbering – Divulge confidential information or secrets. Speak (about unimportant matters) rapidly and incessantly. gabbling.
maundering. prating. clacking. gibbering. palavering. peaching. piffling, Piffle, prattling.
tattling – Prone to communicate confidential information. Speak (about unimportant matters) rapidly and incessantly.
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inveigling – Influence or urge by gentle urging, caressing, or flattering. blarneying.
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wheedling – The act of urging by means of teasing or flattery.
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harridan – A scolding (even vicious) old woman. nagger.
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vicious – (of persons or their actions) able or disposed to inflict pain or suffering. “vicious kicks”. Having the nature of vice.
Bringing or deserving severe rebuke or censure. Marked by deep ill will; deliberately harmful. “vicious gossip”.
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uxorious – Foolishly fond of or submissive to your wife.
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huffy – Quick to take offence. Roused to anger. “stayed huffy a good while”.
hollering – A very loud utterance (like the sound of an animal). Utter a sudden loud cry.
beefing – Complain. grousing. squawking. Utter a harsh abrupt scream. skreighing. screaking. whining. yawping. yammering. wrawling. yowling.
scheming – Concealing crafty designs for advancing your own interest. “a scheming wife”; “a scheming gold digger”.
Scheme – Form intrigues (for) in an underhand manner.
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